I can't help but think of the childhood rhyme kids all across the country chant on the playground, when I think of this family... "First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby in the baby carriage...." (in their case many babies in the baby carriage! ha) Insider fact: Ben is my brother and Kate is the coolest sister-in-law ever. They have 4 adorable children all under the age of 5. Whew! She's my hero.